Sexual Assault

A sexual assault usually results in both physical and emotional damage. It is often more difficult to recover from the emotional damage which is inflicted.

Common reactions after an assault are: guilt, fear, distrust, loss of self-esteem; feelings of depression, helplessness, hopelessness; sleep disturbances and changes in appetite.

If you are the victim of the assault:

Have a medical examination to make sure no lasting physical damage was done.
Discuss what happened with people who care about you.
Call our 24-hour crisis line at 314-531-2003 for information about community resources such as counseling and support groups.
Report to law enforcement if this is something you feel comfortable doing.

If the assault happened to a friend or family member:

Do not blame the victim regardless of the circumstances. Rape is never the victim's fault.
Be available for support, but do not force her to talk. Encourage her to call our crisis line—
314-531-2003.
Sometimes it is difficult for the victim to share her pain with family and friends whom she knows it will distress.
Know that recovery takes time, no matter how much help and support the victim is receiving. By being patient, you are helping her make the transition from victim to survivor.
Sexual assault can traumatize not only the victim but also family and friends. Seek help for yourself if necessary.

Adapted from Sexual Assault Survivors, a guidebook published by the Missouri Department of Health and Senior Services and the Missouri Coalition Against Sexual Assault MoCASA). Quantities of the guidebook can be ordered through the Department's website. The stock number is 1196.